Relationships are one of the sources of our happiness. Many people want to find love because they want to be happy. When you are in a relationship, you are involved in a mutual relationship with a person. To find love, you must know yourself and how are you at handling relationships. Being in a relationship means that you are connected to each other. You will notice some changes that happen around you once you decide to connect with somebody. Usually we go through life not minding other people so much and not being aware of yourself. When you enter a relationship, you become aware of yourself and aware of the partner in the relationship that you have. To have a healthy relationship, you must know that you have to change your mindset of being indifferent to others. Learn to value people around you. Be sensitive to their needs and their feelings. Sometimes, we tend to say something tactless that can hurt the feeling of a person. This should be avoided if you want to have a healthy relationship. Care about people and always expect the good side of them unless they have proven their bad side to you. Value a person based on the success that he or she has and not on the failures. Give your friendship to people instead of asking for their friendship. When you do that, you will attract positive energy into your relationship. For whatever relationship that you are in, in order to find love, you have to learn how to understand people. This is not an easy thing to do because we have our first impression and we tend to let it get the better of us when judging a person. Most people are insecure so you have to give them a boost of self-confidence so that they will feel good about themselves. People want to feel valued and special so affirm them on their positive attitudes. It is human nature to desire for a better future. To do this, always lend a helping hand in helping people achieve their goals. You will see that you will also get to achieve yours when you help others. To find love, it is important to treat yourself with respect and dignity. Do this to other people. Doing so will earn you respect and dignity as well for respect is not given, it is earned. Another thing to put in mind when you want to find love is that you have to learn how to put your emotions aside and think. Sometimes we get so angry that we say things that are not good. If there comes a time when you are so mad, try not to say something because you might hurt other people. These are just some helpful tips that will help you find love and maintain a healthy and loving relationship. If you have not yet found love, that is perfectly alright. The right time will come along when you will have the person whom you want to share your life with. In the meantime, learn to build healthy relationships with other people because this will be a way to find love.
Many people want to contact their ex after a breakup. It could be that they want to repair the relationship and give it another shot or perhaps just gain closure after the breakup. Regardless, you must understand that in order to communicate with your ex in a peaceful manner, there are some things that you must not do. Following are some of the things to know when contacting an ex. The first 24 hours after a breakup happens is the most emotional 24 hours for both parties although it may be for different reasons. Due to this, it is not advisable for a person to start contacting an ex. Now you might point out that one text message won't do any harm, but there's a chance that this would be followed by more messages. Even if your ex is the one who decide to talk with you, you must still ignore it. Why is this? Because it's possible that you say something you'd regret. The first two weeks after a breakup is still emotionally destabilizing. At this point, your ex would be trying their best to heal and if you contact them, this would only make it harder for them to move on. It is better if you try to focus on yourself instead of pursuing your ex. Right now you are too emotional for the task and it would be better if you focus on yourself than get your ex back. If you need something from your ex, like some stuff you left in their place, and then ask a friend to get them with you. Confrontations and communication with your ex should be avoided at all costs. If the two of you run in the same circles, then simply avoid social gatherings where the two of you might meet. It would only be awkward if the two of you happened to be in the same event. Contacting an ex is only a good idea when both of you have gotten over the breakup. To be on the safe side though, it would be a good idea if you first contact your ex through email or maybe a text message. You don't want to pressure your ex into answering by calling them directly. A text message would allow them the choice of ignoring you or formulating a satisfactory reply. If you want to set up a meeting between the two of you then this is especially useful. Your ex can choose to reply to you according to their own schedule. The top thing you need to remember when contacting your ex is not to push too hard. There's a very high chance that they would ignore you or even go so far as to block you out. When this happens, simply try again in the future. If they don't reply then don't resort to flooding their inbox. This is not only petty but would make them annoyed. If they haven't blocked you before, don't be surprised if they do now.
Love.. wen get finished will never happen again..!
And the love wich gets finished..It was never love bt just a foolishness of ur fucking mind..!!
I loved someone..She left me..Then i moved on to another girl..I Luved her as well..V broke up coz of some reason..den i moved on to another girl..i luved dat grl too...!! Then i asked my heart.. Is it luv or a piece of cake dat i share with everyone..!!
Nver i wud hv understood what luv is if i wudnt have met you..!! Now i know i luv you..yOu left me..I still luv you..You hurt me..I still luv you..You insult me..I still luv you..You do every fucking thing with me..And in response to that i will just luv you.. n DATZ WHAT LUV IS.. <3 <3
OFcourse life never stops just coz of one person..but sometimes it never moves ahead and jus revolves around dat one person..!! :):) <3 <3 <3
It's a sentence most of us have probably used at one time or another, though we probably don't want elaborate on the context we've used it in.
But hey, what's wrong with love?
Love is one of the central human emotions. We all experience love for someone or something, to varying degrees, at one time or another. Most of the time, when we think of love, it brings a warm, fuzzy, and sometimes naughty feeling – the type that makes us feel that nothing in the world matters, with the exception of our beloved.
We are often hushed up and reluctant to discuss love with anyone, except for maybe our close friends. But if we think about it, love isn't something bad. In fact, it too is a blessing of Allah. Think: if there was no love in the world, every single person would fight everyone else. There would be no peace and happiness. The world would be a terrible place without love.
Love is natural. It enters the heart and leaves at will, and we don't have much control over it. While we don't have control over love, we do possess control over the actions it can lead us to.
In essence, love is good, but it is the actions that result from it that are of concern.
As with anything, there is a certain limit and transgressing the limit turns the good into bad. For instance, praying Salah is a good thing. No Muslim disputes this fact. However, if one prays Nafl (non-obligatory) Salah all night and misses Fajr (a Fardh or obligatory Salah) in the morning, then his praying Nafl all night becomes something bad. Likewise, if a man spends all day praying and doesn't provide ample food, clothing, and shelter for his wife and children, then his praying all day becomes bad.
Similarly, if love for something or someone begins blocking us from the worship of Allah and from following his orders, the love also becomes a bad thing. If a person, for the love of his children, works all day long (so he can feed and clothe them well) and doesn't pray and remember Allah, then his love for his children has evidently become bad for him..